PREGNANT! (4 Weeks)


Ahh! How exciting! I thought this might be a good time to make this blog a little more personal, and share my pregnancy/birth/post pregnancy week to week. Today, according to my ovulation date (which I know just what day that was, from charting and using Fertility Friend!) I am 5 weeks pregnant!

This last month I was charting, taking temps everyday at the same time, charting cervical mucus and cervix position. Now, this was our first month going with the “see what happens” philosophy, and apparently THIS is what happens! So, we are very very lucky, and my thoughts and prayers that go out to all of the women who experience infertility and trouble conceiving. I also do know all of the things that can go wrong, but my thoughts on that right now are, that we will cross that bridge if we get there. I don’t want to spend my whole first trimester worrying, I want to enjoy being a mommy!

I found out last Tuesday, after I had a few days of cramping, spotting at 7 and 10 dpo (like, one spot literally all day) and Tuesday was 12 dpo. AF wasn’t scheduled until Saturday, but knowing that there is a good chance to get a faint positive at 12 dpo, I decided to get a couple tests on my lunch break, and of course couldn’t wait until FMU the next day! I was on a 3-ish hour hold and got a positive almost right away. A couple hours later, I took a second and viola, another positive! (Using blue-dye tests). After work I went to Target and bought a bunch of baby gifts, wrapped them up and took them home and gave them to my husband. He guessed what it was before he even opened them (dissapointing) but, who cares, we’re pregnant!

We told close family and a couple friends right away, then told the rest of the family and announced to Facebook (classy, right?) on Monday. Now, most everyone knows, and I am so excited!

From the day we found out (3 weeks, 5 days) through 4 ish weeks, I really had no symptoms, after cramps stopped, I was feeling pretty normal. I’ll continue with my symptoms from the last week in my 5 week post!



Charting Series Post #2: All About Abbreviations!

One of the most confusion things about TTC can simply be the abbreviations that are used! In post #2, we are going to go over a bunch of these to help you just right into the discussion.

2WW Two Week Wait The waiting period between ovulation and testing
AF Aunt Flo Period, Menstruation
BBT Basal Body Temperature This involved taking your resting temperature (after sleep) at the same time daily, to help identify ovulation
BC Birth Control Pills, IUD, DepoProvera, etc.
BD Baby Dance Sex!
Beta Pregnancy Blood Test Pregnancy Test by blood draw by physician
BFN Big Fat Negative Negative Pregnancy Test
BFP Big Fat Positive Positive Pregnancy Test
CD Cycle Day CD1 is the first day of your period, up until the day before your next period
CM Cervical Mucus The mucus produced by your cervix, which can help identify fertility
CP Cervical Position The position of your cervix, which can help identify fertility
D&C Dilation & Curettage Clearing the lining of the uterus, often a procedure used after miscarriage
DD Dear Daughter Daughter
DH Dear Husband Husband
DP Dancing Partner Spouse, boyfriend, significant other, etc.
DPO Days Past Ovulation This is your Luteal phase, DPO1 starts the day after ovulation
DB Dear Boyfriend Boyfriend
DG Dear Girlfriend Girlfriend
DF Dear Fiance Fiance
DS Dear Son Son
DTD Do The Deed/Do The Dance Having sex
EDD Estimated Due Date The due date of your baby!
EWCM Egg White Cervical Mucus This is a stringy, sticky, egg-white like cervical mucus, the most fertile.
FMU First Morning Urine The first time you urinate in the morning
FRER First Response Early Result First Response Pregnancy Tests
FX Fingers Crossed Good Luck!
hCG Human Chorionic Ganadotrphic What is detected in home pregnancy tests to determine pregnancy
HPT Home Pregnancy Test Pretty much any test you take at home
IB Implanation Bleeding Some women experience spotting when implantation occurs
IUI Intrauterine Insemination A fertility procedure
IVF In Vitro Fertilization A fertility procedure
LH Luteinizing Hormone What OPKs look for to detect ovulation
LMP Last Menstrual Period The (first usually) day of your last period
LP Luteal Phase The time between ovulation and CD1
Mc or M/C Miscarriage Loss of baby
MS or M/S Morning Sickness Nausea caused by pregnancy
O or OV Ovulation The releasing of the egg by the Ova
OPK Ovulation Prediction Kit Using to find ovulation at home
POAs Pee On A Stick Taking an ovulation or pregnancy test
SAHM Stay At Home Mom Mother who stays at home with children
SO Significant Other Your Partner
TTC Trying to Conceive Trying to have a baby!
UTI Urinary Tract Infection An infection of the Urinary Tract (common in women)
YI Yeast Infection A vaginal infection (common in women)
US Ultrasound For pregnancy, or looking into fertility relating difficulties

Have more to add? Share in the comments!

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Mother’s Day

Tomorrow is Mother’s Day, which is a grand celebration for so many. I want to make sure to also speak to those who find Mother’s day hard. Whether struggling to be a mother, losing a child, or losing your mother, this day is just as much for you.

Mothers come in all shapes, sizes, types, a mother is not just someone who births a child.

This is for all of you.


A mother can be someone who has given birth, raised a child, coached a child, taught a child, watched a child grow, lost a child or longs to have one. A mother is a verb, a feeling, not something physical. YouTube’s Missy Lanning did a great job at capturing this very thought. Check out both her videos (below).


Charting Series: Post #1 – What is Charting?

Welcome to my very first series! I thought it would be fitting to make the first series about one of the first steps through TTC, pregnancy, birth and parenting. You may have heard people talk about charting, using abbreviations such as BD, BFP & the LC, talking about their apps and ovulation. But what does all of this mean? In this series we will talk about the different aspects of charting, which is to great advantage of every woman, TTC or not, to understand what your body is doing.

Basically, Charting is tracking your reproductive/fertility cycle. This includes tracking periods, but is also so much more. Really getting into charting can help you pinpoint the day of ovulation, the length of your luteal cycle, the period of fertility and can help you identify if you have a problem that can affect your fertility, or if there are steps you can take to increase fertility. Charting can also be used in NFP, Natural Family Planning, to avoid pregnancy, or just to get to know your body!


The first step (or one of them) is to find a good app to chart with. I am a hard-copy type of person, so I also write down my steps in a notebook, but an app is really helpful in pinpointing ovulation, and ease of entering and extracting information. There are two very popular fertility apps (I’m sure there are many many more as well).

  • The first one is Ovia, which many women swear by and has a very complex series of questions you can use to track all signs and symptoms throughout the month. For me personally, Ovia is soo slow and hard to quickly add information to on my phone, so I don’t use it.


  • The second is Fertility Friend. Now, there is a free version with limited abilities and a paid version (you get to start with a trial) that has tons of information, analytics, etc etc. Personally, the free version is enough for me, someday if I may feel the need to pay and upgrade for all the features, it’s not terribly expensive. Fertility Friend is super easy for quickly entering your BBT (Basal Body Temperature) which is a big plus for me! We will cover Fertility Friend in another post in the series.


There are a lot of things that you can do to chart. In my opinion the #1 thing you need to do is chart your BBT, or Basal Body Temperature. This is your body’s resting temperature and needs to be taken at the same time everyday, and after a few hours (at least) of uninterrupted sleep. Basically, go to bed at a reasonable time, then set an alarm for the same time everyday, and before you even sit up, talk to your spouse or your dog, reach for your thermometer and take your temperature. (Again, we’ll cover more specifics in a following post.)

Another important factor is CM, or cervical mucus. Your CM changes throughout your cycle, certain types are a sign of your fertile period, and dry CM (or lack of basically) usually means that you are not in the fertile period. This is very important, but hard for me, I can never seem to find the correct type of CM, and BDing (baby dancing, or…sex!) can mess up your mucus. This is a more detailed process, it may need a whole blog post to itself.) Along the same lines of CM is cervix position. This means charting how high or low your cervix is, as well as if it is open, closed, soft or hard. This is difficult for a lot of people, and it takes time to know your own body, to be able to detect the changes.

Another step is using OPKs, (ovulation prediction kits) to test when you are ovulating. These track the LH (luteinizing hormone), which indicates ovulation. I find these difficult; they cost money (never good when you have them, and want to pee on 3 a day) and some women, and even cycle to cycle, can either miss their LH surge, or can show positive results for days. Both, not very helpful.

It is also important to chart other personal symptoms, such as cramps, headaches, tenderness so you can look back and see what symptoms you had when.

Lastly, an important factor to chart is when you BD! That is very helpful to help detect infertility problems, (are you BDing in the fertile window?) as well as help with detecting pregnancy.


There’s so, so, so much more. We will cover many more aspects of charting in this series including how and why to take your BBT, how to check your cervical mucus and what you’re looking for, fertility friend, examing your chart, and more!

Have questions? Leave me a comment or ask me on Twitter! @CopperPink71